I get a lot of questions about the silver I use. Just after we got married in 2003, I started collecting random pieces of silver, but it wasn't until about 3 years ago that I completely got rid of my regular everyday silverware and replaced it with my silver collection. This is what we use everyday for everything. I love it!
Somehow, eating baked beans on any given evening in the summertime becomes as special as eating Christmas prime rib when you have a pretty, old piece of silver in your hand. ;o) That is the truth.
When I first started collecting silver, I only knew two things: that I love silver, and that I know what I like. The latter applies to anything I collect. I mean that I know what I like, and it does not matter if it has value beyond that. I adore the mismatched look of my silver. I am especially drawn to pieces that are engraved.
Once in a while, I get lucky and land on pieces with monograms that actually applies to us....
Momma gave me a set of six pastry forks for my birthday. So pretty!
I also use silver for the babies. Shrimp forks and demitasse spoons are perfect for little mouths!
Now there are all sorts of rules with silver that I don't always follow. I'm such a rebel. ;o) I am never really that careful with acidic foods, and I have put mine in the dishwasher. Handwashing is recommended. I try to handwash mine, but if I do, it's at the end of the day when I do the entire day's worth.
Polishing seems to be what everyone is most concerned about with silver. Yes, it tarnishes. Yes, it needs polished. The more it is used, the less often it needs polished. But, honestly, polishing silverware is reasonably quick. It has just become part of my routine. My favorite polish is Wright's Silver Cream.
How do I buy my silver? This is the question I am asked most often.
I typically only pay $1 for each piece. They are usually in the bottom of some box and black with tarnish. Of the hundreds of pieces I have collected, there are only a handful I have not been able to polish. It has been very few that I have relegated to yard work (digging holes in the flower beds for new plants). ;o)
Like I mentioned before, the value of a piece means very little to me. I am not a silver snob. The difference between the real silver pieces and silver-plated pieces are noticeable by weight, texture, and sometimes appearance, but not enough for me to mind. There are some compositions I prefer, but I like all of it. On the back of the neck of a piece is where you will find markings that tell you the composition and maker.
There are several large online databases that will tell you all about your piece, including the age of your piece and the name of the pattern....my favorite parts.
I also wanted to mention one of my favorite sites for finding old silver with monograms and engravings... I found a Christmas gift here last year that was absolutely perfect!

"You might be a Southern mother if you took the initiative to pick your daughter's silver pattern at birth."
- Gayden Metcalf and Charlotte Hays